Please stop clinging to the mistaken belief that they will be ruined somehow if they know these things sooner rather than later because the opposite is true.
A few months ago I sent out an email with a snappy comeback your sons (and daughters) can use to refuse looking at porn with their pals. Do yourself a favor and please accept the fact that it is very highly likely this will happen to your child. It’s important to offer them some guidance […]
First of all, CONGRATULATIONS! How fabulous that you managed to make time for some loving. Secondly, BUMMER! Nothing spoils the mood like the pitter-patter of tiny feet, gasps, and commentary along the line of “What the heck are you two doing?!” Here’s how to handle it. Prevention! Right now, today, institute a “knock first” policy. […]
Everyone has a story about the first time they had sex. Your kids may ask you about when you lost your virginity. They may not. When you talk with them about this, you have a choice about how much you tell them, and whether you talk about it at all. Please don’t lie to them. […]