Imagine how you would feel if you found out that you were adopted when you were 10 or 12. It would be shocking, confusing and probably piss you off.
He then asked me why it happens. and I froze. What should I have said?
Explain that a “deal breaker” is something—a behavior, comment, or value—your teen absolutely cannot tolerate and violates his or her trust in someone.
While I have perpetual plans to become a podcaster myself, I’m not quite there yet.
Before you say, “Hell no!” I strongly encourage you to really think this through.