Resist the urge to think, “NOT my kid!” and instead please think, “MAYBE my kid!” as you read.
In addition to your family values about sexuality, by eight-years-old your child should: Have an awareness of the life cycle of humans, plants and animals, including the needs and responsibilities for caring for them….
You are the best sex educator for your child because you will share your values. Values are hugely important to kids when it comes to sexual decision making.
If you say this you are required to do what you said you would.
For a long time I thought it meant, “Please, go ahead and have sex with whomever you want, whenever you want, with whatever tools-costumes-toys you want, where ever you want and I’ll pretend to be fine with that.”