One place to start is to explain to your kids, sooner, rather than later, that they will someday, most likely, experience a feeling in their body that is called “desire” or “sexual desire.” And can start as young as ten – hence the boner. Girls get them too, they are just teeny-tiny.
I am an avid Savage Love Podcast listener and I have learned so much about humans and sexuality from his callers and his excellent, spot-on advice. I was listening to Episode 428 and a 20-something married woman called in because she can’t have an orgasm when she has vaginal sex with her husband. She said […]
Encourage your boys to masturbate with condoms. This way they will be able to put one on in the dark, one handed, upside down, etc.
Here is the Dictionary.com definition of sexuality. Just something to think about. What do you think it means? 1. sexual character; possession of the structural and functional traits of sex. sex⋅u⋅al⋅i⋅ty [seks – shoo – al– i – tee] –noun 2. recognition of or emphasis upon sexual matters. 3. involvement in sexual activity. […]
One day last summer, when Milo and I were walking home from his child care, he told me that some kids had found some graffiti under a slide. “They were laughing and everyone was going under to see it,” he said. “I think it started with an ‘F’.” Ah. The F-word. Now, sadly, Milo has […]