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April 28, 2011 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Abstinence Panties! There’s the answer!

I love this lame-ass idea! Some mom has decided that sexy, boy-short style panties with slogans like “Zip it!” and “Not tonight” will help teens wait for sex.

Um. Do they not hear themselves? Sexy. Panties. Hidden messages. Seems like a recipe for encouragement to show them off – which is most likely what’s happening.

Call me crazy, but I think these panties will actually encourage kids to have sex – it sounds like a challenge to the boys – Can I see them? Can I get in them? It’s not a very long trip from showing them off to taking them off.

The good news is that they don’t come in Tween sizes.

The bad news is that the guy on their home page looks old enough to be the girl’s father. Ew.

Go buy a pair! Support Abstinence! It works! Really! It does!

What Would Your Mother Do is the site. Barf.

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Filed Under: Parenting Tips Tagged With: Teens, Tweens

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