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How to Talk to Autistic, ADHD, and Neurodivergent Kids About Consent, Puberty, Sex, and More!

Not sure how to talk to your neurodivergent kid about consent, puberty, relationships, and sex?

You’ve found the only neuro-inclusive sex education resources designed specifically for parents of autistic, ADHD, and other neurodivergent kids.

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Do you…

  • Worry your child is more vulnerable to being taken advantage of?
  • Wonder how to teach consent in a way they’ll actually understand?
  • Put off these conversations because you don’t know what to say?
  • Feel unsure how to adapt these talks for your child’s unique needs?
  • Wish someone would just tell you exactly what to say and when to say it?
  • Think you’ll mess it up?

Why do you feel this way?

You’re just missing support that actually works for your kid.

That’s where I come in.


Free Guide!

The 3 Key Things Your Kid Needs to Know (and 3 Things You Need To Know)

A quick-start guide if you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure where to begin.

Download it here.


 

Worry Less


Neurodivergent kids are safer from being taken advantage of when they have lots of information about sex and relationships.

Neuro-inclusive


Your kid is unique, so you need to approach these topics in a way that works for them (and you).

Increased confidence


With the right information, tips, and strategies, you’ll feel confident and prepared to educate your child.

My girlfriend with four neurodivergent kids needs to take part in this! The info is awesome, and I just love your presentation! ~ Cindy J.

About me!

I’d been a sexuality educator for over 16 years, but even I felt totally lost when it came to talking about sex with my own kid. The good news is I figured it out! 

In 2006, I started Birds & Bees & Kids to help other parents, but when I looked for neuro-inclusive resources for parents, there was nothing. And I mean nothing!

So I created them for families like yours.

I help parents and carers of neurodivergent kids communicate about consent, sexuality, relationships, and puberty in ways neurodivergent kids can understand.

If you want to…

  • Know what’s age- and developmentally appropriate—and when to start.
  • Be ready for every sex ed topic—from private parts to puberty to porn.
  • Stay calm, confident, and clear during every “sex talk” (yes, all of them).

…this is the place for you.


 

Become Confident


Get resources full of practical tips and tools to make talking with your neurodivergent kid easier.

Get the Tools


Discover how simple it can be to make these talks a regular part of your family life.

Setting Up for Success


Confidently prepare them for this hugely important part of life!

I know this content will make every difference in my confidence and knowledge when guiding my neurodivergent son.” ~ Kristy A.

What’s next?

Get going! 

Start Here: Raising Safe, Healthy Neurodivergent Kids

You don’t have to do this perfectly. This is the place to start.

If you’re parenting an autistic, ADHD, or other neurodivergent kid and feeling overwhelmed—or worried you’re missing something important—this kit gives you a clear, calm place to begin.

  • Consent Basics for Neurodivergent Kids
  • Tips for The Talks
  • The Myths That Keep Parents From Having the Talks

Step-by-step, neuro-inclusive guidance—designed just for you.

Learn more here.


Go all the way! 

Solution Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

  • Full access to Birds & Bees Solutions Center.
  • Research-based, age-appropriate, and neuro-inclusive information.
  • Sections are broken down by topic:
    • Getting started
    • Consent and body boundaries
    • Puberty
    • Online safety
    • And more!
  • Regular updates with the most current information and resources.

BONUS! One 30-minute individual consultation ($95 value) is included!

How it works:

  • You choose your own adventure! It’s self-guided. 
  • Check out the content and start where it makes sense for your family.
  • Choose one (just one) topic to get going.
  • Feel calm, confident, and prepared to support your child in the best way possible.

Learn more here.

Get just what you need to keep them safe and smart.

 

 


Classes & Training

Interested in bringing me to your organization for a parenting talk? This is the one for you: The Birds & Bees for Parents of Autistic and ADHD Kids

Do you work with kids?  This is the training for you: Sexual Behavior & Development in Neurodivergent Children and Teens

 

Thank you for making it all feel less complicated, scary, embarrassing, and all of that!!! ~ A.J.

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"I'm on a mission to help every kid grow up to be a whole and healthy adult! I do this by helping parents just like you learn how to have open and effective talks about sexuality, love and relationships. "

-Amy Lang, MA

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