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May 12, 2010 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Are you growing a sexually healthy adolescent?

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This is a great list of attributes of parents of
sexual healthy adolescents! How do you measure up? Where can you make
improvements?

Parents of sexually healthy adolescents:

  • Demonstrate value, respect,
    acceptance, and trust in their adolescent children.
  • Model sexually healthy
    attitudes in their own relationships.
  • Maintain a non-punitive stance
    toward sexuality.
  • Are knowledgeable about
    sexuality.
  • Discuss sexuality with their
    children.
  • Provide information on
    sexuality to their children.
  • Seek appropriate guidance and
    information as needed.
  • Try to understand their son’s
    or daughter’s point of view.
  • Help their daughter or son gain
    an understanding of their values.
  • Set and maintain limits for
    dating and other activities outside of school.
  • Stay actively involved in their
    son’s or daughter’s life.
  • Ask questions about friends and
    romantic partners.
  • Provide a supportive and safe
    environment for their children.
  • Offer to assist adolescents in
    accessing health care services.
  • Help their daughter or son plan
    for their future.

 

From Facing Facts: Sexual Health for America’s
Adolescents
, SIECUS, New York, NY, 1995.

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Filed Under: Childhood Sexuality, How To Talk To Kids About Sex Tagged With: Puberty, Teens, Tweens

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