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September 1, 2025 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

The best way to get your teen to talk (spoiler: it’s NOT asking questions)

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If your tween or teen shuts down the second you ask, “How was your day?”—you’re not alone. You may be wondering how to get your teen to talk, especially if they’re neurodivergent and have tried a bunch of things, none of which work very well. There’s one magical thing you can do if you’ve been […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Teens, Teens Tagged With: communication, Puberty, Scripts, talking about sex, Teens

July 2, 2024 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Actual things to do about the Surgeon General’s SM warning (This is the best and most helpful info I have seen)

You’ve seen a bunch of info about this – the warning label on social media platforms stating it’s connected to mental health problems in teens.  Me too and here’s more.  The most helpful and encouraging was from the delightful Catherine Price. Her team permitted me to share it. So here you go.  Be sure to […]

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May 30, 2024 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

How to Talk About: Pornography

Beginner Sometimes people look at videos of people having sex. This is called porn or pornography, and it is definitely not for kids. Your heart and mind aren’t ready to see this kind of thing because kids aren’t ready for sex. It can be scary and confusing. The rule in our family is that if […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Pornongraphy, Uncategorized

May 30, 2024 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Have you talked to your kids about sexual attraction?

It’s important to discuss sexual attraction with care and sensitivity, no matter what you believe. Sexual attraction is a part of life (a big one!) and it’s important you talk to your kids about it. I believe kids need to know about sexual attraction and how it’s possible to be attracted to someone who is […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, LGTBQ, Sex Education, Uncategorized

May 1, 2024 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

So long and thanks for all the calls! Plus 20 tips for the sex talks from Sex Talks with Tweens — Episode 200

Just Say This - Birds and Bees and Kids Podcast

Hiya! Here are a bunch of ways you can stay in touch with me! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Resources Birds & Bees & Kids Bookstore is here. My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Podcast, Sex Education Tagged With: Scripts

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