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How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex
by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees
by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees
Here’s a little lesson on the difference between sex and gender. “Sex” refers to our physical being – male or female. “Gender” refers to the social roles related to our sex – boy or girl; man or woman. We don’t have man or woman fish, for example, because they don’t have social roles. According to […]
by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

How do I Explain Gender Identity To A Preschooler? Hi Amy! My friend’s five-year-old daughter just asked me if my kid is a boy or a girl and we are not sure how to respond. My 12-year-old identifies as non-binary and gender fluid – sometimes feminine, sometimes masculine, sometimes both, sometimes neither – always a […]
by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees
by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees
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