How can we debrief our daughter on rape story heard on playground? Hi Amy! My spouse and I saw you speak at our daughter’s school several years ago, and you provided some wonderful resources we still use. We also keep up with your Facebook page. Unfortunately, we find ourselves in a situation we aren’t sure […]
7-Year-Old Wants To See “Real Life” Pictures of Bodies, Sex And Birth
Is it okay to show 7-Year-Old “Real Life” Pictures of Bodies, Sex And Birth? Hi Amy! My seven-year-old boy is VERY interested in sex! I don’t see any signs of anxiety in him, but have to admit that I feel anxious about the fact that my seven-(!)-year-old is so curious about it. It’s hard not […]
Helping Elementary Kids Navigate Crushes & Peer Pressure
How do I help my elementary school tween navigate crushes, peer pressure and other social stuff? Hey Amy! Do you have any resources regarding talking with kids who are in elementary school tween phase and navigating the social stuff around crushes? Our school just had a pretty significant collective issue with this around a group […]
Mom Late to the Sex Talks with Middle School Daughters, Needs Direction
How much is too much? Hi Amy! I have 11- and 13-year-old middle school girls. I’ve started some conversations with the 13-year-old but it’s time to get into the heavy stuff before middle school starts. I’ve had the books you recommended for years but I’ve chickened out a few times! I’m going to lead with, “I’m probably a […]
First Graders Playing Chase and Kissing Games
Teacher Needs Guidance on First Graders Playing Chase and Kissing Games–A Lot! Hi Amy! I teach first grade at a local private school in Seattle. I have been in education almost 20 years, but only in first grade for three. For the first time ever, I have a class that is very interested in the […]






