How are you supposed to talk to kids about Safe Adults? Here are some scripts! Beginner Sometimes kids need people they can talk to about stuff besides their parents. Your safe adults are . . . (me, your other parent, Grandma, an aunt, an uncle, etc.) If you’re sad or scared or have a problem, […]
Teen Romance Books With Just the Right Amount of Sexy
Are you looking for some teen romance books to recommend to your teen so that they can safely get their rocks off? Here are some great recommendations from a librarian. Jack of Hearts (And Other Parts) by LC Rosen The Nerdy and the Dirty by BT Gottfred The Gentleman’s Guide to Vice […]
18+ New Rules For Boys’ Sexual Health
Here you go, my thoughts on the new and improved ways we should be talking with boys about sexuality. Just like girls, there’s a bunch of old rules that need to be junked so all kids can grow up to be whole and healthy adults. Peggy Orenstein’s new book, Boys & Sex has tons more […]
How to Answer “When Did You Have Sex The First Time?”
How to Answer “When Did You Have Sex The First Time?” Often, parents will ask me about what to say if their kid asks them “how old were you when you had sex for the first time?” and other personal questions about your sex life and history. For some, it’s an easy straight up answer, […]
Is My Teen Normal? Yes, Most Likely – How to Talk to Your Teen About What is Normal Sexual Behavior.
There is a wide range of “normal” when it comes to human sexuality and your teen needs to know what the range is so they form happy, healthy relationships.






