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April 21, 2020 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Mom Needs Help Explaining Why Boys Get Erections

Childhood Sexual Health Q & A

How to explain why boys get boners

 Question:

My 7-year-old just asked me why his penis was big. I told him it was called an erection that it was normal and that it happens when blood flows to the penis. He then asked me why it happens and I froze. What should I have said?

Answer:

You handled this really well – that’s exactly what’s happening! As for why? It’s practicing for when he’s older and ready to have sex and it totally normal for this to happen.

And you should watch the “That’s How the Boner Grows” video with him. It’s great (and funny).

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Amy Lang, Sex Education Expert

"I'm on a mission to help every kid grow up to be a whole and healthy adult! I do this by helping parents just like you learn how to have open and effective talks about sexuality, love and relationships. "

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