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July 14, 2020 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

How to Talk to Tweens and Teens about HPV

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How to Talk to Tweens and Teens about HPV

HPV is the most common and communicable Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI). You may know this as venereal warts, which gives you a little insight into the most common symptoms. Often, the carrier has no symptoms or the warts are on the cervix or throat and are very hard to see.

Most sexually active people will be infected with at least one type of HPV at some point. Usually the body’s immune system fights the virus and it resolves. HPV is highly communicable–very easy to get (and give)!

Since its introduction in 2006, HPV infections have declined among adolescent girls by 71% and women in their early 20s by 61%.

Why should my child have the HPV vaccine?

As you may already know, HPV is linked to cervical, throat, mouth, anal and penile cancers and this is the reason for the development of a vaccine. The virus is transmitted via sexual contact and can lead to cancer. The vaccine is about cancer prevention, not sex. Because there is a vaccine available for everyone age 9 to 26, you will probably need to chat with your kids about this STI very specifically.

Feel free to leave the “if they’ve been vaccinated for an STI this means they’ll think they have permission to have sex” thoughts by the wayside. Kids don’t interpret being vaccinated with permission to have sex. They’ll have it at some point whether or not they have had the vaccine.

The following are some scripts you can use to talk to your kids. You can adapt them to suit your values and the ages of your kids.

Explain what HPV is…

You need to have a vaccination for something called HPV. This is a virus you can get when you are older and it can turn into different kinds of cancer.

You know how we’ve been talking about STI’s? Well, there is one called HPV that can turn into different kinds of cancer. There’s a vaccine for it, which is good news. However, it only protects from certain strains, so you can still get it, just not the cancer causing kind.

HPV is super easy to get. It’s kind of like the common cold of the crotch – that gives you cancer. Bonus! Not.

Explain why they need the HPV vaccine sooner, rather than later…

I know it seems weird to get vaccinated for an STI when you are nowhere near being sexually active, but it’s important to get it now, so you are protected later. This doesn’t mean you don’t have to use condoms when you have sex – they are still required. You are still at risk for all the other STI’s out there.

Are you concerned about giving your child this vaccine? Read up on it’s safety here. #Science #CDC

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Filed Under: Parenting Tips Tagged With: Scripts, STDs and STIs, Teens, Tweens

Amy Lang, Sex Education Expert

"I'm on a mission to help every kid grow up to be a whole and healthy adult! I do this by helping parents just like you learn how to have open and effective talks about sexuality, love and relationships. "

-Amy Lang, MA

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