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February 18, 2020 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Kid Safe Alternatives to Porn

Your kids will be exposed to porn and they may need safe alternatives to porn – sexy pictures (not videos) are a good way to go

Safe-ish Pictures of Sexy Gals

This seems so old school, but the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit site is just about perfect – it’s even kinda diverse! Of course there are problems – objectification, unrealistic bodies, etc.

Safe-ish Pictures of Sexy Guys

For the kiddos who are into guys check out Cosmopolitan’s Hot Guys page. Lots of diversity here and while they are objectified I don’t give much of a fuck about that.

For girls who see these women it can have a pretty negative effect on their body image and these women give boys wrong ideas about normal girl’s and women’s bodies. Not good stuff, but you can help mitigate this by talking about it. There is no good answer to finding images of sexy people for kids too look at – and while I think we’d all love it if they didn’t have any interest in this, they do. Not every kid, for sure, but lots of kids.

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