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Best Books About Sex For Kids

Find the best sex ed books for your kid (and you)!

Ages 2 – 5 years old
Ages 6 – 9 years
Ages 10 – 12 years
Ages 13 & Older
Neurodivergent Kids
Books for Adults

 

Sex Talks with Tweens - A Book By Amy Lang‘Can’t you just tell me what to say?’ is the number one question parents ask me, and yes, I certainly can! It’s all here: tons of clear and easy-to-use scripts for everything you need to know to teach them to be safer, smarter, and prepared for this part of life. Even if your child isn’t a tween yet, you need this book to prepare for future sex talks.” Learn More About This Book

How To Have The Talk - Birds Bees and Your Kids Book by Amy LangAre you avoiding the birds and bees talks? Started and stalled out? Did you know you have the most influence when it comes to your child’s preparation for relationships and sex? This book will provide you with the confidence, inspiration, and motivation to prepare your kids for this fundamental part of life and become their go-to source for all things related to the birds and the bees. Learn More About This Book

 



Sex Education Books for Kids 2-5

Ages 2 to 5 years

  • Bodies & Boundaries

  • Your Whole Body
  • I Can Play It Safe
  • C Is For Consent
  • All About Vulvas And Vaginas: A Learning About Bodies Book
  • All About Penises: A Learning About Bodies Book

How Babies Are Made (and More)

  • It’s Not The Stork
  • What Makes A Baby

Gender & Families

  • Calvin
  • 47,000 Beads
  • It Feels Good To Be Yourself
  • Love Makes A Family

 



Sex Education Books for Kids 6-9

Ages 6 to 9 years

Body Boundaries & Consent

  • Body Boundaries Make Me Stronger
  • Let’s Talk About Body Boundaries, Consent And Respect

Sexuality, Relationships & More

  • It’s So Amazing
  • Sex Is A Funny Word
  • Making A Baby

Puberty

  • The Girl’s Body Book
  • The Boy’s Body Book
  • Celebrate Your Body (Book One)

Gender

  • A Kid’s Book About Gender
  • It Feels Good To Be Yourself: A Book About Gender Identity

Online Safety & Porn

  • Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Jr

 



Sex Education Books for Kids 10-12

Ages 10 to 12

Body Boundaries & Consent

  • Can We Talk About Consent?
  • Consent For Kids!

Sexuality, Relationships & More

  • It’s So Amazing
  • It’s Perfectly Normal
  • You Know, Sex: Bodies, Gender, Puberty, And Other Things

LGBTQ+ Inclusive

  • The Every Body Book
  • Wait, What? A Comic Book Guide To Relationships, Bodies, And Growing Up

Puberty

  • Will Puberty Last My Whole Life?
  • Celebrate Your Body (Book Two)
  • Guy Stuff: The Body Book For Boys

Gender & Sexual Orientation

  • Gender Identity For Kids: A Book About Finding Yourself, Understanding Others, And Respecting Everybody!

Online Safety & Porn

  • Good Pictures, Bad Pictures: Porn Proofing Today’s Young Kids

 



Sex Education Books for Kids 13+

Ages 13 & Older

Body Boundaries & Consent

  • Consent For Kids!
  • Say More: Consent Conversations For Teens

Sexuality, Relationships & More

  • It’s Perfectly Normal
  • You Know, Sex: Bodies, Gender, Puberty, And Other Things
  • Spare Me ‘The Talk’! For Girls
  • Spare Me ‘The Talk’! For Boys

Bodies

  • Body Drama: Real Girls, Real Bodies
  • Being You: The Body Image Book For Boys

LGBTQ+

  • The Pride Guide
  • Beyond The Gender Binary

Online Safety & Porn

  • Cybersecurity Life Skills For Teens
  • Good Pictures, Bad Pictures: Porn Proofing Today’s Young Kids

Fiction

  • LGBTQ+ Romance
  • YA Romance

 



Sex Education Books for Neurodivergent Kids

Neurodivergent & Developmentally Different Kids
Many of the books in the above sections are appropriate for your kiddo!

Body Boundaries & Consent

  • My Body! What I Say Goes!
  • An Exceptional Children’s Guide To Touch

Sexuality, Relationships & More

  • It’s Not The Stork (Five and under)
  • It’s So Amazing (Five to 13)
  • It’s Perfectly Normal (10 and older)
  • The Every Body Book (10 to 13)

Sexuality & Relationship Books For Teens

  • Making Sense Of Sex
  • The Social Survival Guide For Teens On The Autism Spectrum
  • Dating When You’re On The Autism Spectrum

Puberty

  • The Autism-Friendly Guide to Periods
  • The Growing Up Guide For Girls
  • The Growing Up Book For Boys
  • The Tom And Ellie Book Series

 



Sex Education Books for Adults

Books for Adults

Birds & Bees & Kids Books

  • Sex Talks With Tweens: What To Say & How To Say It
  • Birds & Bees & YOUR Kids

Body Boundaries & Consent

  • Protecting The Gift
  • Sexploitation

Puberty

  • Brainstorm
  • This Is So Awkward

Sexuality, Bodies & More

  • Girls & Sex
  • Boys & Sex
  • Sexism & Sensibility: Raising Empowered, Resilient Girls in the Modern World
  • Raising Boys To Be Good Men

LGBTQ+

  • The Pride Guide
  • Unconditional: Supporting Your LGBTQ+ Child

Parents of Neurodivergent Kids

  • Sexuality And Relationship Education For Children And Adolescents With Autism Spectrum Disorders
  • Safety And Consent For Kids And Teens With Autism Or Special Needs

General Parenting Books

  • Nurture Shock
  • Raising Good Humans Every Day
  • The Anxious Generation
  • Yes, Your Kid: What Parents Need To Know About Today’s Teens And Sex

Books For Grownups About Sexuality

  • Shameless
  • Come As You Are
  • The Courage To Heal
  • Ejaculate Responsibly

Pornography

  • How To Talk With Your Kids About Porn

     

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