Birds & Bees & Kids

How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex

  • Start Here
    • Everything from A to Z
    • Neurodivergent Kids
    • Porn Talk Kit
    • Ages & Stages Kit
  • Work With Me
    • Book Me
    • Start Here
    • Consultation
    • Training for Professionals
  • Resources
    • Sex Talks with Tweens Book
    • Best Books About Sex For Kids
    • Websites, Books & More
    • Blog
    • Podcast
    • Videos
  • About
    • Media
  • Contact
  • Talk Tips

July 8, 2019 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

“Sexy” Little Girls = Shame, Eating Disorders + Poor Sexual Health

I’m working on my book of scripts and have included a few about the sexualization of girls. I ended up re-reading the awesome report of the APA Task Force on the Sexualization of Girls and you should read it too. 

That headline up there? That’s just some of the impact when girls internalize sexualization – valuing themselves for their sexual appeal and how they look rather than who they are.

Here are a couple of the scripts to test out on your girls AND your boys. You’ll have to wait for the book for more!

When girls focus too much on how they look, the clothes they wear and if they are “sexy” it’s bad for them. “What they are” becomes more important than “who they are.” It’s like they are an object, like a chair or a tree, rather than a person.

Girls are not things, and are valuable because they are smart, kind, funny, friendly, capable and kind. How would you feel if people made every decision about you based on your shoes or your t-shirt and that’s what you thought made you important: your clothes. 

 

Sign up to receive my monthly newsletters and more here!

Spread The Word!

  • Email
  • Facebook
  • LinkedIn

Filed Under: Childhood Sexuality Tagged With: Girls, Scripts

Amy Lang, Sex Education Expert

"I'm on a mission to help every kid grow up to be a whole and healthy adult! I do this by helping parents just like you learn how to have open and effective talks about sexuality, love and relationships. "

-Amy Lang, MA

Stay In The Loop

Get tips and info you can use right away from the Birds & Bees & Kids newsletter.

LEARN

Sex Education Classes & Workshops
Parent Quickie Consultation

RESOURCES

Sex Education Online Resources
Sex Education Books for Parents & Kids

For Professionals

Sexual Abuse Prevention Training

Let’s Hook Up!

Facebook - Birds & Bees & Kids    YouTube - Birds & Bees & Kids    Instagram - Birds & Bees & Kids
National Prenting Education Network Member 2024

  • Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Training
  • Contact Amy
  • Legal & Privacy Stuff

Copyright ©2022 · Birds and Bees and Kids, All rights Reserved.