What is normal sexual development for kids in elementary school? In other words, is the behavior that you’re seeing typical or concerning? At this age, kids are becoming aware of sexuality. As with all other curiosities they’ve had, kids learn by asking questions and testing theories. Therefore, they’re little scientists looking for answers about how […]
Want to help you (and your kid) thrive during puberty?
Yes, I said you! You will be your kid’s first line of defense when it comes to the crazy-pants time called puberty. Their changing bodies and minds can be baffling to parents – and to them. The more YOU know, the better they will feel and you will probably have more compassion as they move […]
“Playing Doctor” – Typical and common behaviors in kids and what to do!
A really quick way to assess whether a behavior is typical for a kid is to ask yourself, “Is this something adults or teens would do?” If the answer is no, then it’s most likely a common kid behavior.
A Quick Review of Common Behaviors, “Sex Play” and Sexualized Behavior
Just a quick refresher about the difference between typical behaviors and sexualized behaviors. Your intuition will help you know the difference and remember, if you suspect abuse, you need to report it! GENERAL COMMON BEHAVIORS Bodies Touch Games Gender identification Self stimulation/masturbation TYPICAL & HEALTHY – “Sex Play” Spontaneous Mutual Good humored Good […]
Red Flags and Warning Signs in Adults
Predators can be anyone… a man, a woman, another child. It is important for parents to understand that predators gain access to your child through you. Pay attention to your “gut” and look for consistent patterns in red flag behaviors such as someone who: Consistently insists upon arranging to spend alone one-on-one time with a particular […]
