Trust your child to know their gender even if it doesn’t conform to the gender they were assigned at birth and may not make sense to you. Gender is not about what genitals a person has but who they know themselves to be in their heart.
How To Talk To Your Children about Caitlyn nee Bruce Jenner and Being Transgender
SEX is about biology and physiology. Are you male or female? Think about this in terms of fish. Do we talk about “women” and “men” fish? Nope, because that’s gender.
Think Before You Use The Phrase “Opposite Sex”
One thing I already do in the “reduce gender roles” department is this: when I meet and greet a woman or girl I do NOT complement them on how they look or what they are wearing.