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September 1, 2025 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

The best way to get your teen to talk (spoiler: it’s NOT asking questions)

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If your tween or teen shuts down the second you ask, “How was your day?”—you’re not alone. You may be wondering how to get your teen to talk, especially if they’re neurodivergent and have tried a bunch of things, none of which work very well. There’s one magical thing you can do if you’ve been […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Teens, Teens Tagged With: communication, Puberty, Scripts, talking about sex, Teens

November 30, 2022 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Explaining 69 to an 8-year-old; penis and banana “joke”; and sperm banking for a 12-year-old — Episode 144

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Explaining 69 to an 8-year-old; penis and banana “joke”; and sperm banking for a 12-year-old — Episode 144 In this episode, Amy answers mail bag questions. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Podcast, Sex Education Tagged With: Elementary School, Porn, Puberty, Tweens

August 17, 2022 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Pubic Hair: To Remove or Not Remove?

Here’s why I think you should let your pubic hair grow in. Let me start by saying I ALWAYS get in trouble when I give this advice. Of COURSE, I believe people should be able to do whatever they want with their bodies including removing every little hair everywhere. Kindly reserve your outrage for pro-forced […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex Tagged With: Body Awareness, Puberty, pubic hair, Tweens

July 20, 2022 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Wonderful words about wanking; sisters need to stop privates game and lil penis-haver is holding it 24/7 –Episode 125

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Wonderful words about wanking; sisters need to stop privates game and lil penis-haver is holding it 24/7 –Episode 125 In this episode, Amy talks with parents who have questions about young kids and their privates.  Also a gold star award to a dad who called in to relay his conversation with his son about masturbation. […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Podcast, Sex Education Tagged With: Consent, Puberty, Scripts, Tweens

June 8, 2022 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Sex and intimacy coach Leah Carey chats about how your sex life can influence your sex talks! –Episode 120

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Sex and intimacy coach Leah Carey chats about how your sex life can influence your sex talks! –Episode 120 Amy talks with sex and intimacy coach Leah Carey in this ‘can’t miss’ episode. Show notes: Leah Carey Sex & Intimacy Coach – https://www.leahcarey.com/   Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Podcast, Sex Education Tagged With: Puberty, Scripts, Teens, Tweens

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