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September 1, 2025 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

The best way to get your teen to talk (spoiler: it’s NOT asking questions)

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If your tween or teen shuts down the second you ask, “How was your day?”—you’re not alone. You may be wondering how to get your teen to talk, especially if they’re neurodivergent and have tried a bunch of things, none of which work very well. There’s one magical thing you can do if you’ve been […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Teens, Teens Tagged With: communication, Puberty, Scripts, talking about sex, Teens

March 20, 2024 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Boy masturbating in mom’s bedroom; should you buy condoms in front of your kids; and is a body pillow OK for my teen? — Episode 196

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Boy masturbating in mom’s bedroom; should you buy condoms in front of your kids; and is a body pillow OK for my teen? — Episode 196 GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Good old Amaze has great videos on […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Podcast, Sex Education Tagged With: Birth Control, masturbation, Teens, Tweens

February 14, 2024 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

The Valentines Edition: Telling a 6 year-old they can have a “girlfriend” as long as they get good grades; helping tweens navigate crushes; and are trans kiddo romantic sleepovers damaging? — Episode 194

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The Valentines Edition: Telling a 6 year-old they can have a “girlfriend” as long as they get good grades; helping tweens navigate crushes; and are trans kiddo romantic sleepovers damaging? — Episode 194 GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Podcast, Sex Education Tagged With: Boundaries, Consent, Elementary School, Teens, transgender, Tweens

November 1, 2023 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

Kiddo thinks he isn’t horny enough and the connection between sex talk freak out and porn exposure — Episode 184

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Kiddo thinks he isn’t horny enough and the connection between sex talk freak out and porn exposure — Episode 184 GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! What’s wrong with a lack of interest in or desire for sex? Nothing.  […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Podcast, Sex Education Tagged With: porn exposure, Teens, Tweens

October 25, 2023 by Amy Lang, The Queen of the Birds & Bees

How to talk about kink — Episode 183

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How to talk about kink — Episode 183 GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Working the kinks out BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other […]

Filed Under: How To Talk To Kids About Sex, Parenting Tips, Podcast, Sex Education Tagged With: STDs and STIs, Teens

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